With a cash deposit of 100 million, even in a first-tier city like Zhonghai, one can be considered a wealthy person.
But Chen Xi doesn't seem to have the consciousness of being a rich man.
He is still busy buying groceries, cooking, washing, mopping, and taking care of the children every day. He is completely a standard housewife.
When many people get rich, the first thing they do is buy a house, thinking that they should give their children a better growing environment.
Chen Xi did not consider changing houses at all, mainly for several reasons.
First, this is the house he and Yingying bought through hard work before he left, so he has a deep affection for this house. If there is forced demolition, maybe Chen Xi will become the most powerful nail-biter in history...
Secondly, apart from the dilapidated houses, poor sanitary environment, and lack of surrounding facilities, is there anything else bad about the Kangju Community?
Most of the residents of Kangju Community are not rich, so they may often quarrel over trivial matters.
But if something happens to a family, the kind of care and help from neighbors cannot be felt by rich people living in detached mansions.
Chen Xi is very accustomed to living here, so he has no plans to move or even renovate.
After all, he lived very comfortably in the cave before, right?
But having said that even Chen Xi himself did not realize that he has now completely integrated into this society.
It's like returning to the feeling before leaving.
It was a feeling called life, which made him live very comfortably every day.
In the morning, after the little girl had a video chat with Aunt Zhang, Chen Xi hugged her and asked seriously: "Nian Nian, do you still want to go to kindergarten?"
The little girl bit his finger and thought for a while, then hesitantly said: "I don't want to go."
Maybe she still remembered that it was her strong request to go to kindergarten, so she immediately said with some embarrassment: "You can go too!"
After saying that, she got into Chen Xi's arms.
Seeing this, Chen Xi couldn't help but smile and rubbed her little head.
Being able to bear it until now and not wanting to go is already far beyond Chen Xi's expectations.
Children are very curious about everything they have never been exposed to before, and this is also the case in kindergarten.
Niannian used to envy other children that they could go to kindergarten, but after she went there, she realized that kindergarten was not a particularly fun place.
It’s okay to play it once or twice, but if she has to do it every day, how can she not get tired of it?
The kindergarten that Nian Nian Du attends is not bad. Teacher Wang is very responsible and their tutorial arrangements are also very scientific and there is nothing too over the top.
Unlike some kindergartens, the middle class begins to teach children addition and subtraction within ten.
Addition and subtraction may seem very simple, but it is a first-grade course arranged by the Education Committee, and it is knowledge that only children in the first grade of primary school need to master.
The reason why kindergartens teach is because many parents now always have the illusion that if their children do not learn in advance, they will lose at the starting line.
Therefore, under the strong request of some parents, many children who are less than four or five years old can already memorize positive numbers within one hundred and reciprocals within one hundred very smoothly.
This also makes parents feel complacent and feel that their children are the smartest.
But in fact, these are the results of forcing children to memorize, rather than the result of children actively understanding and memorizing.
In other words, this education method is wrong!!!
Except for a very small number of geniuses, normal children are basically in the stage of perceptual action thinking before the age of three.
From three to six years old, they are in the stage of concrete image thinking.
It is not until after the age of six that children enter the early school age.
Such as reciting mathematical formulas, English words and sentences, Tang poetry and Song poetry, three-character classics, mathematical formulas,
These are all studies that emphasize memory, and learning too early is harmful rather than helpful.
Why is this happening?
Because children’s brains are extremely plastic, allowing children to learn by rote learning too early will greatly reduce the plasticity of their brains, thus affecting their imagination.
In addition, forced memorization will increase the child's psychological pressure and reduce the child's interest in learning. When the child starts learning in the first grade, semester weariness suddenly appears, so that the child has no intention to study at all.
Young brains need balanced development. Although premature simple memory develops the child's left brain, it inhibits the development of the right brain and hinders the overall development of the brain.
Chen Xi doesn't understand these things very well.
His idea is very simple, that is, to create a comfortable and happy childhood for Niannian.
Chen Xi does not require Niannian to go to Tsinghua University and Peking University, so compared to her grades, Chen Xi is more concerned about whether she can mold the correct values, outlook on life, and worldview for Niannian.
These days, having the three views correct is more important than anything else.
Don’t do evil, don’t be mean, don’t be a virgin, don’t be sentimental, be confident but never arrogant, strong but not stubborn, be clear about right and wrong, look at problems fairly and objectively, find the problem in one word, act decisively without being sloppy...
It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people.
Chen Xi has a long way to go...
After thinking carefully for a while, Chen Xi hugged the little girl and asked gently: "Since you don't want to go to kindergarten, then don't go, okay?"
Hearing this, the little girl immediately jumped up excitedly, hugged Chen Xi's neck, and giggled: "I don't want to go! Daddy is so good! Mua!"
She is getting more and more attached to Chen Xi now, and of course, she doesn't want to be separated from Chen Xi.
After laughing for a while, the little girl suddenly tilted his head and thought for a moment, then pouted and asked: "But... the teacher said that adults have to go to work and children have to go to school... If I don't go to kindergarten, what should I do? ?”
Chen Xi pinched her little nose gently and then said with a smile: "You are still young, you just need to eat more and grow up quickly. Children can do what they like, so dad won't force you, you like to play so much, can daddy take you to Beijing to play?"
"Where is Shangjing?"
"Shangjing is the capital of our country. There is the Forbidden City, Tiananmen Square, and the Great Wall there. Do you want to see it?"
Hearing this, the little girl was immediately interested in Chen Xi.
She stood on Chen Xi's lap and jumped up and shouted: "Go! Go! I want to see the Great Wall!"
She didn’t know about the Forbidden City and Tiananmen, but she had seen the Great Wall in a children’s picture book since she was a child, so her interest was immediately aroused.
"Then we'll set off tomorrow. During National Day, Dad can take you to Beijing to watch the military parade!"
"Good!"
Every festive season, I miss my loved ones even more.
Perhaps because of the festive atmosphere, Chen Xi suddenly missed his relatives very much.
Niannian and Yingying are his only relatives in this world.
Yingying went to Shangjing three years ago and has not been heard from since.
After this period of getting along, the little girl has gradually adapted to the days when Aunt Zhang is not around.
As long as her father is around, she will not be afraid of anything unfamiliar.
It is precisely because of this that Chen Xi finally decided after careful consideration...
It’s time to take the little one on a journey to find Yingying.
Maybe a little impulsive, but this sudden decision will not be wrong.
A child cannot live without his mother.
And he cannot live without his wife.
Go to Beijing.
We are coming!
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