On the street.
Father and daughter stood on the sidewalk looking at each other.
This place is very remote. Although it is located in Zhonghai, a first-tier city in China, it still looks like an urban-rural fringe.
On one side is an elevator apartment under construction, on the other is an old unit building that has been built for a long time.
After Chen Xi put the little girl down, she faced Chen Xi and took a few steps back, then put her hands behind her back.
Seeing this, Chen Xi wanted to pull her into his arms.
But at this time, the little one took a step back, as if she didn't want Chen Xi to hug her.
Chen Xi looked at the little girl's expression seriously but found that her expression was a little strange.
There was a feeling of being wronged, but it didn't look like he was about to cry. Instead, he pouted his mouth and looked very stubborn.
The language skills of four-year-old children have not yet fully developed, so sometimes they can only vent their emotions through behaviors such as rolling around and crying.
What kind of parents are there, and what kind of children are there?
Aunt Zhang set a good example for Niannian, so Chen Xi firmly believed that Niannian would not hit others for no reason.
"Nian Nian, dear, have you been wronged in any way? Tell your father that he will avenge you!"
Chen Xi pulled the little girl again, but this time she still wanted to dodge.
But if Chen Xi wanted to catch him, how could she escape?
So he was immediately hugged by Chen Xi.
"Well? Tell dad, okay?"
Chen Xi scratched her little nose with his hand.
At this time, the big cat also stood at her feet and gave a very timely "meow", as if to encourage the little one.
The little girl's long eyelashes flapped twice like cattail fans, then he twisted his body and said quickly: "I want to play with the big cat!"
Hearing this, Chen Xi immediately let go of her.
As long as you can still talk...
The little girl held the big cat in his arms, rubbed his little head against the big cat, then put the big cat down again, squatting on the ground and stroking its smooth hair back and forth.
She looked like a child who had been wronged and wanted to hide in the corner and draw circles!
Chen Xi stood aside and waited for her for a while. After feeling that she had almost adjusted, she said softly: "Nian Nian, it's time for us to go home."
After saying that, Chen Xi bent down slightly and stretched out his left hand in front of the little girl.
Seeing Chen Xi's outstretched palm, the little girl hesitated for a moment, and then slowly raised his little hand.
The big hand holds the little hand.
The father and daughter walked slowly down the street, while the big cat followed them from a distance on catwalks.
When a husky saw the big cat, he immediately rushed over with his tongue wagging.
The big cat ignored it, and the husky snorted and whirled around the big cat.
Maybe I find it a bit annoying.
The big cat suddenly narrowed his eyes, turned his head, and growled at the husky.
"Meow!"
The sound was not loud, but it was so frightening that the husky's fur exploded, his legs kicked, and his body immediately jumped far away, and then he didn't dare to look back and ran faster than when he came with his tail between his legs.
After arriving home.
The little girl seemed to have recovered a lot, and then he sat directly on the sofa and watched cartoons by himself.
Chen Xi changed her shoes and saw that she was looking attentively, so she didn't disturb her and walked into the kitchen wearing an apron.
Chen Xi jingled with the pots and pans.
Normally at this time, the little girl would always run into the kitchen very clingy, and then be pushed out gently by Chen Xi while laughing.
She has something on her mind today.
As long as human beings are conscious, they will naturally have worries.
Children over two years old will have worries, not to mention that Nian Nian is already over four years old.
It is not difficult to guess what a child is thinking. Chen Xi has already guessed what she is thinking about.
It was precisely because of this that Chen Xi chose to leave her alone.
A child who grows up in a normal environment will hear this kind of education from his parents since he was a child: don't hit or bully others.
This is the first time Niannian has hit someone.
It was precisely because she knew that hitting someone was wrong that she had such complicated emotions when Chen Xi took her home.
This is a manifestation of not being able to face the mistakes you have made.
I can’t talk about regrets, but I will feel aggrieved.
Why do others bully me, but it’s me who makes the mistake and gets scolded in the end?
Even if Teacher Wang didn't blame her, Chen Xi didn't blame her either.
But the moment she hit someone, a child with a sense of justice would stand up, shout that Nian Nian was beating someone, and then run to complain to the teacher.
Many parents only pay attention to educating their children not to hit or bully others.
But if you don’t guide your children correctly, what does bullying mean?
Niannian felt aggrieved.
Chen Xi also felt a little helpless.
Others bullied Nian Nian, and Nian Nian also beat others.
Is it possible that he, as a parent, has to come forward and kick that child to the moon?
Some things seem simple, but when you talk about them, they become very complicated.
While eating, the little girl kept silent. After taking a few bites with a spoon, he threw the spoon away sat on the sofa, and continued watching TV.
When Chen Xi saw this, he also put down the chopsticks in his hands, then sat over and gently held her in his arms, watching cartoons with her.
Zhonghai is a coastal city. The sun rises very early and the sunset is very early.
As the sun continued to set, the room became darker and darker.
Chen Xi stood up and prepared to turn on the light in the room.
At this time, the little girl noticed his movements and thought he was leaving. He immediately grabbed Chen Xi's sleeve and said cowardly: "Daddy, I'm sorry..."
After saying that, her tears kept falling out of her eyes like a dam opening.
Chen Xi sat back on the sofa.
Gently held the little girl in his arms, and then comforted him: "Be good, you are not wrong."
Hearing this, she finally couldn't help crying.
After Chen Xi waited for her to cry for a while and saw that her mood gradually calmed down, she gently wiped away her tears and asked with a smile, "Do you want Dad to beat him up to vent your anger?"
The little girl leaned in Chen Xi's arms, thought for a while, but still shook his head gently.
"No, the teacher said it's wrong to hit someone..."
"It's good that you know."
Chen Xi rubbed the little girl's hair with great relief, then held her in his arms and turned on the light in the room.
Then, Chen Xi picked up the bowl, fed her hand in hand, and started eating.
After she shook her head and said she was full, Chen Xi wiped the corners of her mouth for her, then turned the little girl's body so that she looked at him.
"Nian Nian, remember."
"It's wrong to bully others, so you must never bully others in the future."
Hearing this, the little girl nodded.
But looking at her expression, she still looked aggrieved.
However, Chen Xi's next words stunned the little girl.
"But."
"If someone bullies you again in the future, don't be afraid..."
"Hit him hard!"
"After I beat him, I won't dare to bully you again!"
"Remember?"
The little girl looked at Chen Xi blankly, with a very cute expression on his face, as if he hadn't recovered yet.
Chen Xi looked at her cute little appearance and couldn't help but kiss her on the face.
Night has fallen.
It's not yet August 15th, but a full moon is already hanging high in the sky.
The smile appeared again on the little girl's face.
The father and daughter each occupied a swing and just stared at the moon in the sky.
"Nian Nian, we don't cause trouble, but we are not afraid of trouble either... This is what the big boss said."
"Who is the big boss?"
"Well……"
"Daddy, the moon is so beautiful, will Mommy go to the moon?"
"Won't."
"Why?"
"Because Dad has been there."
"Daddy is lying!"
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